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**Internet
Safety Information |
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| Internet
Safety- Guidelines for Parents
Here are a few recommendations
from the National Center for Missing
& Exploited Children for talking
with your child about online safety
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- Establish
guidelines and rules
for using the Internet in your
home.
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Keep it public.
Place the family computer in a
common room where
you can supervise
your child’s online activities.
- Know
what your child likes to do online
and ask questions
about his/her online activities.
Ask your child to show you his/her
favorite websites.
- Familiarize
yourself with the Internet. Know
the programs that your
children are using and the websites
they visit.
- Explain
to your child that instant
messaging is only for real-life
friends. Talk to them
about never meeting in
person with anyone they
first "met" online.
- Know
who communicates with your child
online. Sit with your child at
the computer and have him/her
explain the real-life identities
of every person on their
buddy lists or profiles.
- Reinforce
that people online are
not always who they say they are;
explain to your children what
personal information
is (addresses, phone numbers,
e-mail) and explain how risky
it can be to give out personal
information online.
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If your child has a profile
or blog on a social networking
site, ask him or her to
show it to you.
- Talk
with your child about posting
photographs online. Often
photos contain information that
reveals where children go to school,
who their friends are, the names
of clubs or teams they belong
to, or where they live.
- Help
your child understand that when
something is posted online,
it becomes public information.
Other people can view what is
posted on the page, copy and paste
it, and put it in a more public
forum online or through e-mail
or IM.
- Keep
the lines of communication
open with your
child. Sometimes children
do and/or see things that they
shouldn’t online, but don’t
want to tell parents or guardians
because they are afraid of losing
Internet privileges. Encourage
your children to tell a trusted
adult if they see something that
makes them feel scared, uncomfortable,
or confused online. Show them
how to turn off the monitor and
emphasize that it's not their
fault if they see something upsetting.
- Talk
to children about not
responding to offensive
or dangerous e-mail,
chat, or other communications.
Report any such communication
to local law enforcement. Do not
delete the evidence; turn off
the monitor and contact local
law enforcement. Also report such
instances to the CyberTipline.
- More
resources exist to help parents
and guardians talk with their
children about online safety at
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Safety
Tips for Kids from the FBI

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First,
remember never to give out
personal information such
as your name, home address,
school name, or telephone
number in a chat room or on
bulletin boards. Also, never
send a picture of yourself
to someone you chat with on
the computer.
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Never
write to someone who has made
you feel uncomfortable or
scared.
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Do
not meet someone from the
Internet.
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Tell
your parents right away if
you read anything on the Internet
that makes you feel uncomfortable.
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Remember
that people online may not
be who they say they are.
Someone who says that "she"
is a "12-year-old girl"
could really be an older man.
Safety
Sites for Students
McGruff
the Crime Dog Safety Sites |
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BT
Safe Surf |
Safety
Sites for Parents
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Safe
Kids- A guide to making
the Internet and Technology fun,
safe and productive. |
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Project
Safe Kids "Project
Safekids provides parents with state
of the art child Safety tools for
no charge at your event." |
Web
Wised Kids "Web
Wise Kids is a nonprofit organization.
Since 2002, Web Wise Kids has been
committed to teaching children and
their caregivers strategies for
safe Internet use, including methods
of detecting and deterring online
predators." |
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NetSmartz
"NetSmartz® is an interactive,
educational resource for children
ages 5-17, parents, guardians, educators,
and law enforcement that uses age-appropriate,
3-D activities to teach children
how to stay safer on the Internet." |